Moral of the story be accountable for your actions. Life is SONDER and we must take account for the moments we are so deep in our own worlds we forget about others.  Understanding that falling in love is not going the way you want exactly because its not just your love, its shared with the one or two of your choosing. "Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding,  it is the bitter potion by which the physician within you heals your sick self, therefore trust the physician, and drink his remedy in silence and tranquility - Kahlil Gabran" - Huey Freeman